Often times when I am communicating in a church setting I will use the phrase “this faith we say we believe”, or some variation. From time to time people will ask me why I say that as opposed to just saying “our faith” or something similar. My response varies, but the thought behind it is simple: regardless of what we say we believe, it is the hard decisions that we make that tells whether we truly have faith or not. I could spend weeks telling people that I believe that the budget that my wife and I are living on is a good thing, but if I were to go and impulsively bye an Xbox tomorrow… what would that say about what I really believe?
This past week Theresa and I spent a few days in Intercourse, Pa. (go ahead, get your snickering done). We stayed at a lovely bed and breakfast and were able to spend some time reliving my childhood at the Strasburg Railroad and checking out some of the Amish country attractions. The highlight of the trip for me was an evening that we spent in the home of a young Amish family.
Over the course of three hours we met the couple and their four children, had dinner, and learned a great deal about Amish culture through conversation, but more through what was unsaid. I was surprised by how badly we have blown the stereotype of the Amish and how, though there are some glaring differences, the Amish are far more like us than not.
The more that I watched and soaked on all that was going on around us, the more that I came to realize that the Amish were doing what The Garden is trying to do in Baltimore. Our heart is to see Baltimore restored through faith based community… the Amish do everything in that faith based community. Reading through some of the books in the library of the bed and breakfast I was struck by a this story:
Some years ago a group of 52 people chartered a bus and came to Holmes County to see the Amish. They had arranged to have an Amishman meet them and answer some of their questions. The first question was, “What does it mean to be Amish?”
The Amishman thought a bit and then he asked a question of his own. “How many of you have TV in your homes” Fifty-two hands went up. “Now, how many of you feel that perhaps you would be better off without TV in your homes?” Again, fifty-two hands went up. “All right. Now, how many of you are going to go home and get rid of your TV?” Not one hand went up!
from The Amish Speak
As I sit in my apartment in Bolton Hill, I can’t help but ask myself “what am I willing to give up for the sake of community?” Am I willing to do away with Twitter, Facebook, and cellphones? Am I willing to rid my life of all the “good” things that get in the way of doing life with our neighbors… or am I so entrenched into this lifestyle that I can’t give them up, even if I tried?
Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that Twitter and Facebook are inherently evil (the jury is still out on the cellphone, however], but I am saying that there are things in my life, and all of our lives that do interfere with our ability to relate well with one another, and develop a healthy sense of community within our churches and other organizations.
So, the question that I am wrestling through right now is two fold:
What, in my life, is getting in the way of developing a healthy, faith based, community?
Am I willing to give that up in order to protect that community?
Thoughts?
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